I've been thinking, what's the difference between
1) Learn the value of something/someone only after you've lost it/him/her
2) Your greatest desire is always something you cannot get.
If it aint apparent enough, I apologise, for it is a direct translation from chinese. Allow me to test this fantastic program that I recently downloaded. wahaha.
1)失去后才懂得去珍惜
2)越得不到的东西， 就越想得到
What is the difference between these two. Thinking about it, isnt the area very gray? Only when you've lost something, then you know for sure that it aint easily accessible to you anymore. Only then will you want it. The only difference, may be the timing. One happens before you have it, the other is after you've lost what you used to have.
Sometimes, you don't know which one it is.